I give up!

In the attempt to keep up with the jones', trying to find the perfect blog back ground, I have concluded that the Tonks Family blog from now on will be white. Earlier in the week I found a great website (matie kay) and quickly uploaded adorable fall paper. I found out the next day that the web site was shut down due to copy writing problems. Strike 1. Then today I was going to my old friend Ali Flegal's blog and saw that she designed her own html. Who does that? Not me anyhow. Then I went to my old neighbors blog, megan cooper, and saw more cute backgrounds. So I went to that website and found a plethora of more paper. So I found one I liked and uploaded in on my blog, to then find out that all the links to the "blogs we read" were subsequently erased! Ahhhh, I'll never remember all of them. As a result, if you visit my blog and don't see your name on my link list, please give me your address again because my brain is too full at this point of kids songs and "to do" lists to be able to remember everything.... Thanks for letting me vent.